![]() A 2008 study suggests asking for eye contact and then requesting that the story be told in reverse when you think a person may be lying. Ask direct questions or challenge what your spouse is saying.Use the time to process any of their lying patterns and keep yourself from responding impulsively. When your partner is relaying what you think to be a lie, take a brief moment before you answer. Pause to think before responding to what your partner is telling you. ![]() But expecting honesty about their plans when they leave the house or when you periodically check-in is usually reasonable. For example, expecting your partner to tell you exactly where they are and what they are doing at every minute of the day is an unreasonable request. ![]() Your gut reaction may be more accurate than trying to identify stereotypical behaviors often associated with lying such as fidgeting and lack of eye contact. You can't always detect when someone is a liar in a relationship, but it's important to trust your intuition. ![]()
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